Friday, February 14, 2014

Comfortable With Each Other - Happy VDay!


In honor of Valentine's Day, and inspired by a fellow blogger, I thought that I would take a break from all the baby talk around here (I know, your all applauding) and discuss the various things that they hubby and I are comfortable doing around one another......well maybe this more applies to me, as there are no boundaries when it come to D and I. In relationships you get to that comfortable stage and frankly certain things don't bother you like they once did. The hubby and I have been together for such a long time that all the traditional taboo topics have been discussed or experienced! There are those times when you just have to look at one another and laugh....which is what we tend to do.

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1. Get Dolled Up - I don't know about you guys, but when I met my husband I rarely did my hair or put on makeup. I only get dolled up for special occasions these days. Really my routine is concealer, powder and mascara. I can't tell you how many times the hubby has come up to me with a tee, jeans and my hair in a ponytail and told me how beautiful I look. Awe!

2. Eat off one another's fork in public - People may look at us funny, but I think it takes way too much time and energy to cut off a slice and place it on the others plate. Just get a bite and let them eat it! Who cares!

3. Expel Gas (Belching or Farting) - Everyone does it! It's always funny! Now, being pregnant, it is a side effect that cannot be avoided. Honestly who has time to run to the bathroom every five minutes? Not me! At first I made an attempt to conceal it from the hubby....and I still am a lady in public of course! Always excusing myself. But at home we each do it, and get a kick out of one another.

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4. Leaving the door open - Since we are on this topic, and this is only me we are talking about, I don't always close the door when I am using the bathroom. Don't ask me why, but I don't. Call it lazy, or whatever but I have done this for YEARS. I don't see it changing soon. Drive's the hubby up the walls.

5. Be a big baby - Seriously....I cannot kill a spider to save my life. I insist that D do it every time I find one! I act like a little girl, pointing up at the ceiling and saying KILL IT! Not my most attractive feature!

6. Swear -  I have an affinity towards certain swear words. I use them religiously when I get irritated or upset. The hubby hates it when I swear. It's something that I have been working on especially now being pregnant....but at some point, it's the MOST appropriate word for the moment.


7. Honesty - The farther you get into a relationship, the more honest you can be with one another. Don't ask the "Does this shirt make me look fat?" question if you don't want an honest answer....and yes your breath smells rancid in the morning....go brush those bad boys! You get to be honest about your feelings, fears, dreams, etc. Anything and everything is allowed on the table.

8. Not shaving - You betcha I'm guilty of this, and so is he. You know there comes a time when you can't remember when the last time you shaved....this is the time when you need to or else you will have a fur coat for winter. There will be times when the hubby and I are cuddling in bed, and my nose is itchy but I am too lazy to actually scratch it myself....I'll just use his overgrowth on his chin!

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Well I think I opened myself up there a little bit! Haha.....but I know that most women are guilty of some if not all of these as well. I love the fact that the hubby and I are so comfortable in our own skin and with each others quirks that we just know how each one will react. Neither of us feel insecure or a need to be someone else when were around each other, and to me that is perfect!

Wishing my hubby a Happy Valentines Day and I can't wait until you have a new Valentine in your life to spoil! I love you so much!


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